Sr. Ching Madduma, ICM
Sarnath, Varanasi, U. P. India
Finally the stage arrives when Kamal begins to recognize people. This is the turning points in his life. Now a new potential opens up. Read on:
Great Potential
There are many anecdotes and incidents about Kamal that indicate the great potential that still is to be realized in him. He is very curious and observant. He likes to tyro out object he sees around. He needs freedom to develop his own creativity and imaginations. Kamal can be trained to help himself, to be independent to a certain extent.
Help the Family
Recently certain instances helped us to appreciate very much Kamal’s presence. One time he was absent from the class for two days. We came to know that during those two days of absence, he help the family to carry construction bricks, which we can see are piled in front of their house. So, Kamal is not a person to be called “good for nothing?”
Could Work for a Living
Regarding his future career, Kamal might be able to do properly – accepted scavenging, if given a push cart. He is able to do certain types of construction work by carrying bricks, or perhaps he could do domestic work like sweeping and cleaning toilets and bathrooms.
At this point, the teacher and myself are attempting to clarify his field of interest so that specialized training can begin. We have talked over with his parents and adult family members Kamal’s work possibilities.
Remove Steel Chain
And we have asked that the steel anklet on Kamal’s feet (which is used to chain him from time to time) be removed and that be allowed to go free. In the beginning there was great hesitation, no response or cooperation from the family. Kamal’s great obsession with scavenging and the kind of work he can do make the family ashamed of him. They feel Kamal’s interest and potential are below the dignity of the family caste.
Needs Love
The rehabilitation of Kamal is not just a one-teacher or a one-day affair. Kamal needs love and affection, acceptance, encouragement and cooperation from his own family and the community at large. If Kamal is continuously deprived of them, these lacks of social motivation will continue to inhibit his mental development.
Very special Person
The hope is that Kamal will receive the necessary love and affection that is so necessary for his continual growth into a well-integrated person. Kamal is a special person and he needs that special care.
No More Chain
These days, it is a joy to see Kamal moving around the community, no longer with the steel anklet, although doing scavenging work.
A Secret disclosed
From time to time, he comes to us with a broad smile to show all his collection. Lately I came to know that his family have been secretly selling his collections so as to buy him warmer clothes for this coming winter season.
Kamal could grow up to be confident person
…Kamals family have been secretly selling his collection so as to buy him warmer clothes for the winter season.